A perfect relationship is when two imperfect souls come together to work on their imperfections. To be honest, there is no such thing as a perfect relationship neither does a perfect man or woman truly exists.Every man or woman has plenty of flaws. Some people yearn for flimsy imaginations of having a perfect man or woman which always brings problems to their relationships. However, with this article, we shall examine how to create the perfect relationship not set by the standard of the society. A perfect partner cannot be created but our imperfections can be brought together to create the perfect relationship.
The perfect relationship is one in which couples understand each other and are willing to work on themselves. Happy relationships don't create themselves. Whether you have just met the love of your life or you are looking to perfect the relationship you already have, there are always tips to make it better.
••The most important thing for every perfect relationship is trust, every couple must be willing to trust and rely on each other.It is important to always show how dependable and reliable you are in a relationship because that shows how invested you are in the relationship.
••Confiding in each other by opening up about things you are normally private about is another way to strengthen the relationship. Sharing things you would rather keep to yourself like secrets, big fears,personal problems and the likes will also help your partner see the trust you have in them and also give the chance for open communication which is also very important and will help your love last. What truly baffles me is how people claim to be in a relationship and they can't even communicate or trust each other.
••Honesty, patience and forgiveness are also important in relationships. There will be times when you will get on each other's nerves, patience will help get through them and forgiveness will help you move on and to make a relationship work, compromise is another thing to consider in perfect relationships, there will always be disagreements on some things because people are different in personality,so we must be willing to compromise as the relationship progresses.
••Spending time away from each other also helps, when in love its normal to always want to be together but being apart helps to cultivate your own ideas and interests which will help you grow as an individual. Always encourage your partner in whatever they are doing because it makes them feel important and wanted.
We all should realize that life is not a fairy tale and can never be a bed of roses at all times but if you are willing and open-minded to make it work, things will definitely improve. A friend of mine always says that we are all imperfectly perfected so working on your relationship is what makes it work and not being envious of other couples.
The perfect relationship is one for you and your partner alone and not for the society.
Question of the week(QOTW): what do you think is the cause of most breagkups? (please share your opinion in the comment section below).
The perfect relationship is one in which couples understand each other and are willing to work on themselves. Happy relationships don't create themselves. Whether you have just met the love of your life or you are looking to perfect the relationship you already have, there are always tips to make it better.
••The most important thing for every perfect relationship is trust, every couple must be willing to trust and rely on each other.It is important to always show how dependable and reliable you are in a relationship because that shows how invested you are in the relationship.
••Confiding in each other by opening up about things you are normally private about is another way to strengthen the relationship. Sharing things you would rather keep to yourself like secrets, big fears,personal problems and the likes will also help your partner see the trust you have in them and also give the chance for open communication which is also very important and will help your love last. What truly baffles me is how people claim to be in a relationship and they can't even communicate or trust each other.
••Honesty, patience and forgiveness are also important in relationships. There will be times when you will get on each other's nerves, patience will help get through them and forgiveness will help you move on and to make a relationship work, compromise is another thing to consider in perfect relationships, there will always be disagreements on some things because people are different in personality,so we must be willing to compromise as the relationship progresses.
••Spending time away from each other also helps, when in love its normal to always want to be together but being apart helps to cultivate your own ideas and interests which will help you grow as an individual. Always encourage your partner in whatever they are doing because it makes them feel important and wanted.
We all should realize that life is not a fairy tale and can never be a bed of roses at all times but if you are willing and open-minded to make it work, things will definitely improve. A friend of mine always says that we are all imperfectly perfected so working on your relationship is what makes it work and not being envious of other couples.
The perfect relationship is one for you and your partner alone and not for the society.
Question of the week(QOTW): what do you think is the cause of most breagkups? (please share your opinion in the comment section below).
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I feel it when u have not really gotten the rightful person to connect with .as said a relationship is not perfect but d union of two imperfect people can actually make it prefect ..
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ReplyDeleteWow, This is so nice
ReplyDeleteEnter your comment...well-done MA
ReplyDeleteGoing into relationship is a gradual thing, if u rush into relationship u will surely rush out and I think that what have been causing most break up
ReplyDeleteI agree! You need to take time for yourself and let things happen and don't force into a relationship.
DeleteVery simple. What causes breakups is when we take a break from truly loving and being there for our partners ����
ReplyDeleteI was a bit skeptical about the title but as I read i realised I can relate, understand and love your point of view.
ReplyDeleteMy mother told me before I got married that marriage wasn't about love. Choosing who to marry is about love, but not the marriage itself. Marriage is about choosing to work with/for your partner every day. It is a choice you have to make every day.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading this article. My ex and I recently broke up and I thought that he was the perfect man for me and a great dad to our son but I ended up disappointed. I loved what you said in the second paragraph: couples should be willing to work on themselves.
ReplyDeleteThis was a great read. Learned a lot too.
ReplyDeleteMy husband and I will have been married for 21 years this year. All of these are absolutely true. I think the cause of a lot of break ups these days is that couples don't take the time to communicate honestly with their partner what their wants, needs, and expectations are. Communication is essential for long term relationships, in my opinion!
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