A true relationship is one in which both partners communicate and understand the intent of being together. I mean what's with all the goodies and merry go around if there is no purpose sought through the relationship either in the short term run or long term run. This is what brings us to the concept of today's article on defining a relationship; knowing what you are to begin with in order to fully maximise the potentials of being in a relationship.
A relationship is the derivative of the willingness to love. But love won't give a relationship the solid means to take over the world, will it? Rhetorically, we all want to have the pinky and the brain relationship. You know, the part where you as couples conquer every thing that crosses your path to take control of your futures;world domination! Well,diving right into it, the question that tends to come up in defining a relationship is:WHAT ARE WE???
The "WHAT ARE WE" question often occurs in new relationships because this question will either encourage your partner to come clean about their intentions or avoid you completely. However, asking this question always seems tough but it is the most important question so as to avoid any misunderstanding.
Defining a relationship is actually a conversation about expectations and limits.The truth is some people don't know where they stand in their relationships and that has to change. A lot of people are in relationships that they do not even understand while some are just waiting for something to happen. Others also get on the relationship wagon to follow the trend of 'I am in a relationship' without adding any meaning or advantage and that's the beginning of problems in relationships.
Now,considering the wrong moves we make in relationships, it is crucial to define or redefine our relationships to find out if it's actually worth our time and emotions. Find out if there is a relationship first and don't just assume because a lot of people mistake friendship for a relationship.
Personally,my friend shared a story about a guy telling everyone they were in a relationship just because they were close friends and how she had to define their friendship before things eventually get out of hand ". Even friendship these days need to be defined in other to avoid unforeseen complications that might result in ruining the friendship at hand.
Never leave things unsaid for there is always a need to talk and actually find out what's going on.
Also, it is of utmost importance to take note of how deep your love for your partner actually is. Ask yourself questions like;
Will I be willing to fight for the relationship if things go wrong?
Am I down for the terrible parts of my partner?
Am I ready to stand by him through everything and anything the world throws at us?
These questions are crucial to the fate of a relationship. Because what's love if it can't enhance Understanding,commitment and growth from each other.
Why don't we all define or redefine our relationship today for it has been certified and guaranteed that there is a need to define our relationship for a better future with our partner.
Question Of The Week(QOTW):Why are girls mostly the ones that are unable to define their relationships?(please share your opinions in the comment section below).
[Also, problems are allowed to be shared concerning the discussion for I guarantee to give the best super friendly advice.]
A relationship is the derivative of the willingness to love. But love won't give a relationship the solid means to take over the world, will it? Rhetorically, we all want to have the pinky and the brain relationship. You know, the part where you as couples conquer every thing that crosses your path to take control of your futures;world domination! Well,diving right into it, the question that tends to come up in defining a relationship is:WHAT ARE WE???
The "WHAT ARE WE" question often occurs in new relationships because this question will either encourage your partner to come clean about their intentions or avoid you completely. However, asking this question always seems tough but it is the most important question so as to avoid any misunderstanding.
Defining a relationship is actually a conversation about expectations and limits.The truth is some people don't know where they stand in their relationships and that has to change. A lot of people are in relationships that they do not even understand while some are just waiting for something to happen. Others also get on the relationship wagon to follow the trend of 'I am in a relationship' without adding any meaning or advantage and that's the beginning of problems in relationships.
Now,considering the wrong moves we make in relationships, it is crucial to define or redefine our relationships to find out if it's actually worth our time and emotions. Find out if there is a relationship first and don't just assume because a lot of people mistake friendship for a relationship.
Personally,my friend shared a story about a guy telling everyone they were in a relationship just because they were close friends and how she had to define their friendship before things eventually get out of hand ". Even friendship these days need to be defined in other to avoid unforeseen complications that might result in ruining the friendship at hand.
Never leave things unsaid for there is always a need to talk and actually find out what's going on.
Also, it is of utmost importance to take note of how deep your love for your partner actually is. Ask yourself questions like;
Will I be willing to fight for the relationship if things go wrong?
Am I down for the terrible parts of my partner?
Am I ready to stand by him through everything and anything the world throws at us?
These questions are crucial to the fate of a relationship. Because what's love if it can't enhance Understanding,commitment and growth from each other.
Why don't we all define or redefine our relationship today for it has been certified and guaranteed that there is a need to define our relationship for a better future with our partner.
Question Of The Week(QOTW):Why are girls mostly the ones that are unable to define their relationships?(please share your opinions in the comment section below).
[Also, problems are allowed to be shared concerning the discussion for I guarantee to give the best super friendly advice.]
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I feel like girls are unable to define their relationships because they feel like it would put them in a vunurable position which will the give the guy the opportunity to take advantage of them and no one wants to be taken advantage of
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great!!!
It takes a lot of deep things to make a relationship work, its about both partners chosing to love one another, respect one another, protect/defend one another, accepting and dealing with each others flaws, the circumstances not withstand, also accepting each others crazy personalities, and showing sincere support to each others goals and aspirations, no matter how silly the thought of it might seem. It goes on and on, but when you look deeper into this, you come to realise that it's a lot a sacrifice, which a lot of people aren't ready to acknowledge and make. So until then, perfection will continue to be an illusion.
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