HOW TO KNOW YOU ARE WITH THE RIGHT PERSON

There comes a time in every relationship when people starts to ask questions like, "is this the right person for me?"Whether its a new relationship or in the long run, this question is simply unavoidable.

The question is not abnormal and doesn't necessarily mean you are doubting the relationship but you are trying to balance your feelings and attachment for your partner. You can be immensely in love with a person and yet you guys aren't compatible that's why love is inherently hard to define and can be easily confused with lust, infatuation, or friendship. So, it shouldn’t be surprising that this question lingers for some time along the path of relationships.

However, people in relationships hit rough patches. Those are normal and are expected. But they can also be signs of unspoken issues in the relationship, and raise the question of whether you’re truly right for one another.

These are practical signs to know if you are with the right person or not.

SATISFACTION: Relationships that tend to work out always have one thing in common — both partners claim to experience high levels of satisfaction in the relationship. It’s working for them, boosting them up on days when they’re feeling down, sharing basically everything and celebrating each other’s life accomplishments. Both people in the relationship feel like they’re benefiting from it and not just one person acting like a parasite in the relationship.
Have you been more satisfied in
another relationship?
If you've directly experienced more satisfaction in a previous relationship than you do in your current relationship-for example, you found it much easier to express yourself with an ex than you do with your current partner-it would certainly benefit the current relationship to tell your partner what could make you feel more satisfied. You may not know exactly what you need to feel more satisfied,if  you compare your current relationship with all of your past ones and find that the current one pushes all of the right buttons, that’s a sign you’ve made the right choice. You have to be careful with this one, however, because memory is not always accurate in our recollection of the past. You have to try and be as real as you can when doing this.
If you can’t remember another relationship that felt better, treated you better, or helped boost your life in pursuit of your dreams and happiness, then you’re in the right relationship.

Every thing comes down to being satisfied but the other things to look out are;
• No manipulation of any kind.
• You are both benefitting.
• You always come out stronger after every fight.

The right person is not the perfect one but the one who can right all your wrongs.


Question Of The Week(QOTW): Why do you think some people are not compatible irrespective of the love they share?