Would you as a partner allow your other have unlimited access to your social media platforms? Relevant or unnecessary?


I once knew a couple, they truly loved each other but there was a problem with trust because the guy believed his woman was cheating on him because she refused to let him even go through her SMS messages less social media messages. In fact, he didn't know the password to unlock her device.

Another case I knew was of another couple who loved each other yet neither of them was interested in their partner's social media accounts cause they believed it would be a breach of privacy and they trusted each other far beyond those grounds. They respected each other and only would go through their social media accounts if their partner allows them or is required of them.

Truly,we are in a world where technology and social media rules and everything going on in our lives are displayed on social media.Civilization is key in almost every part of society.

So many things happen on social media that causes couples to question each other's loyalty and that is just the beginning of trust issues and that's why some couples have decided to share their passwords to gain more trust which leads to the topic of discussion for today.

Honestly, I don't think couples should share social media passwords because it can either make or mar a relationship in the sense that it shows trust in a relationship. But also, I think couples who do that are doing the right thing.

Your partner will certainly be able to trust you more if you are comfortable enough to share your passwords with them. Its just a prove that you have nothing to hide and are committed to the relationship.

Another benefit of sharing your password with your partner is that you are less likely to engage in any form of imprudence online knowing your partner can easily go through your social media.

Sharing your password could actually give you more privacy instead of taking it away. Just because your partner has access to your social media doesn't mean they will snoop around because you have given them a reason to trust you.

Honestly, I think it is healthy to have some degree of privacy and secrecy in a relationship.But it has more negative side because it causes issues in relationship especially when the partner gets messages from an ex or from a random person that raises suspicion and most times in situation where break ups happen couples tend to use information gotten against each other.

All in all, always opt for complete transparency in a committed relationship.Remember, those who have nothing to hide,hide nothing.

Do what you feel it's right even if it is not to share your passwords with your partner.

Concluding, something as minimal as social media accounts should not be a deal breaker for your relationship. If trust is founded on such grounds, it will be broken cause social media is unpredictable and untrustworthy.
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4 comments:

  1. I agree with you having some degree of privacy in a relationship should be given a thought.

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  2. I have had a lot of debates about this and a phrase on your blog says it all. "Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing". I believe there shouldn't be any form of "secrecy" when it comes to relationships. I love the flow of your post and i enjoyed reading. Thanks for sharing!

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  3. I agree that some privacy is healthy in a relationship. But if you are blocking your significant other from all social media, I think it is unhealthy and there is something you are hiding.

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